Me and Wyatt

Me and Wyatt
Christmas 2009

Wednesday, February 24, 2010

To Date....or Not to Date....that is the question.....

Okay, so I've got several friends who want to set me up on dates.  I'm trying to decide if I'm really ready to date.  I mean I'm a SINGLE Mom (remember widow) I'm going to school (part time only) but do I want the drama of a man in my life right now?  I'm kind of used to the 8 year old boy drama do I want man-drama? 

I know it would be nice to have someone to share life with, go to things with, talk too, but I'm not sure........

Then there are the issues of your dead husband.  I mean my husband really burned me BIG time before he died so there are these trust issues.......and dealing with some other guys Ex-Wife??? Not sure if I could handle that one.  Or other kids????  Not sure how that will go.....

Uuug and to be rejected by someone.....

Any thoughts???? 

Plus list?
Minus list?

Tuesday, February 2, 2010

Snow

Okay, so it's GroundHogs day.  Did he or didn't he see his shadow?  I heard he did!  Wooooohoooooo 6 more weeks of winter.  Yah right!  I live in Minnesota.  We hope all the snow will be gone by May.

It is snowing as I type this.  We've gotten about 3 new inches it's pretty but it's causing big problems.  Traveling on these roads aren't fun!  Oh well what do we expect.  Lots of my family are traveling to warm places in March.  That's what we do here in Minnesota travel to warm places for a couple weeks and come back all refreshed and ready to handle the snow for a several more weeks.  I am NOT going any where nice and warm this year.  I'm okay with that I prefer to be cold then hot any day.  However I do miss the ocean. 

I'm taking a Saturday class this "Spring" which I find funny they call it "Spring" when it's over before Spring starts.  They should just call it what it is WINTER!  I'm not sure what I was thinking when I took a Saturday class it's FOUR hours!!!  I guess I am really crazy!

Life has been good. I've had a few friends try and set me up on "dates" however I'm just NOT interested or ready not sure which.  I figure I've got my son and school and that's about all I need.  Dealing with some man and his issues isn't the DRAMA I want in my life right now.  I met a man that was 42 and has NEVER lived with a woman other than his own Mother.  I find that difficult to deal with.  He has got a LOT to learn.  No thank you!

Is anyone out there?